Wired differently: A guide to developmental neurodivergence

For decades, society viewed the human brain through a singular lens: there was a “normal” way to think, learn, and behave, and anything deviating from that was considered a deficit. However, as our understanding of neuroscience grows, so does our appreciation for Neurodiversity.

The concept of neurodiversity suggests that natural variations in the human genome result in different ways of thinking and processing information. While many of these variations offer unique strengths, they can also present significant challenges in a world built for the “neurotypical” majority.

These variations are often categorized under Developmental Neurodivergence. These are conditions present from early childhood that affect how a person learns, communicates, or regulates behavior. They are not illnesses to be cured; they are lifelong brain differences that shape how individuals experience the world.

This guide provides an overview of the most common forms of developmental neurodivergence, helping to demystify these conditions and promote understanding.


1. The Major Neurotypes: ADHD and Autism

These are perhaps the most widely recognized forms of neurodivergence, often co-occurring, yet distinct in their presentation.

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)

ADHD is a condition defined by differences in executive functioning—the brain’s management system. It is not simply a lack of focus; it is a difficulty in regulating attention. The ADHD brain is often starved for dopamine, leading it to seek stimulation constantly.

  • Key Characteristics:
    • Inattention: Difficulty sustaining focus on non-preferred tasks, disorganization, and forgetfulness.
    • Hyperactivity: A constant need for movement, fidgeting, or internal restlessness (racing thoughts).
    • Impulsivity: Acting without thinking, interrupting others, or difficulty delaying gratification.
  • The Flip Side: People with ADHD are often energetic, spontaneous, hyper-focused on passions, and incredibly creative problem solvers.

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)

Autism is a broad spectrum of neurodevelopmental conditions characterized by differences in social interaction, communication, and sensory processing. The saying goes, “If you’ve met one person with autism, you’ve met one person with autism.” The presentation varies wildly from person to person.

  • Key Characteristics:
  • Social Communication: Difficulty reading non-verbal cues (like body language or tone), taking things literally, or finding eye contact uncomfortable.
  • Repetitive Behaviors: Stimming (hand flapping, rocking) to self-regulate, or a strong need for routine and predictability.
  • Sensory Processing: Being hyper-sensitive (overwhelmed by loud noises or textures) or hypo-sensitive (seeking deep pressure or sensory input).
  • Special Interests: Developing deep, encyclopedic knowledge on specific subjects.

2. The “Specific Learning Differences”

Formerly referred to as “learning disabilities,” these conditions affect the brain’s ability to receive, process, store, and respond to information. They are not related to intelligence; often, individuals with these conditions have average to above-average IQs but struggle with specific academic skills

Dyslexia (Reading and Language)

Dyslexia is the most common learning difference. It is primarily a phonological processing issue—the brain struggles to break down spoken language into its component sounds and link those sounds to written symbols (letters).

  • What it looks like: Slow or laborious reading, difficulty with spelling, trouble sounding out new words, and mixing up similar-looking letters (b/d) or words.
  • The Strength: Dyslexic thinkers are often big-picture thinkers, excelling in narrative, visual reasoning, and identifying patterns that others miss.

Dyscalculia (Math and Number Sense)

Often called “math dyslexia,” Dyscalculia affects the ability to understand number-based information. It goes beyond just being “bad at math”; it is a fundamental difficulty in understanding quantity.

  • What it looks like: Trouble grasping the concept of “more” vs. “less,” difficulty reading analog clocks, inability to estimate (time or distance), and struggling to memorize basic arithmetic facts.

Dysgraphia (Writing and Fine Motor)

Dysgraphia affects the physical act of writing and the mental process of organizing thoughts onto paper. It is a disconnect between the brain and the hand.

  • What it looks like: Illegible handwriting, inconsistent spacing, pain or cramping when writing, and a significant disparity between a child’s ability to speak their ideas versus write them down.

3. Movement and Coordination Differences

Some forms of neurodivergence manifest primarily through motor skills and physical regulation.

Dyspraxia / Developmental Coordination Disorder (DCD)

Dyspraxia affects physical coordination. It causes the brain to struggle with planning and processing motor tasks. While often labeled as “clumsy” in childhood, it is a neurological processing issue.

  • How it manifests:
    • Gross Motor: Tripping, bumping into things, difficulty with sports or riding a bike.
    • Fine Motor: Trouble with buttons, shoelaces, or using cutlery.
    • Organization: It can also affect planning thoughts and organizing daily tasks (sometimes called “verbal dyspraxia”).

Tourette Syndrome

Tourette Syndrome is a neurological condition characterized by “tics”—involuntary, repetitive movements and vocalizations.

  • The Reality vs. The Myth: Pop culture often depicts Tourette’s as uncontrolled swearing (coprolalia), but this actually affects only a small minority of those with the condition.
  • Common Tics: Blinking, grimacing, shrugging, throat clearing, sniffing, or grunting. Tics can wax and wane in severity depending on stress, excitement, or fatigue.

4. Communication and Speech

While autism affects social communication, other conditions specifically impact the mechanics and production of speech.

Speech and Language Disorders

This category covers a range of issues, but a prominent example is Childhood Apraxia of Speech (CAS).

In CAS, the child knows what they want to say, but the brain has difficulty coordinating the complex muscle movements (lips, jaw, tongue) necessary to say those words. It is a motor speech disorder, distinct from a delay where a child simply acquires language later than peers.

  • Signs: Inconsistent errors in speech (saying the same word differently each time), difficulty with longer words, and apparent physical struggle when trying to speak.

From Awareness to Acceptance

Understanding Developmental Neurodivergence is crucial because these conditions do not vanish when a child turns 18. They are lifelong traits.

Historically, the focus was on “fixing” the child to fit the classroom. Today, the goal is shifting toward accommodation and acceptance. When we understand that a student with Dyslexia needs audiobooks, a child with ADHD needs movement breaks, or an adult with Autism needs clear, direct communication, we unlock potential.

If you suspect you or your child may be neurodivergent, early identification is powerful. It moves the narrative from “What is wrong with me?” to “This is how my brain works.” With the right support, neurodivergent individuals don’t just survive; they thrive, offering the world creativity, innovation, and unique perspectives that the neurotypical mind might never imagine.


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